tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7748990619222736072024-02-20T11:38:55.961-08:00Serving As A SisterThe inner thoughts and rants of a Sister Missionary in Washington DC Jessica Mae Turleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06488680008164965310noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-774899061922273607.post-61825124465766194262014-11-18T14:00:00.001-08:002014-11-30T14:13:52.548-08:00Losing the Weight<div style="text-align: center;">
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So recently I was in a discussion with some wonderful women and as it usually does, the topic of <i>Weight loss</i> was brought up. Two of the women in the group had recently started Weight Watchers and one of them has a personal trainer. </div>
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So we started exchanging this secret and that, each of our failures and successes, and then I heard something that changed this whole idea of weight loss. Maybe some of you or most of you have already heard it but it really struck me.</div>
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<b><span style="font-size: large;"><i>"It's ok if you mess up, you just start over the next day."</i></span></b></div>
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I have heard that a thousand times. But with my most recent delving into the atonement it just <b>CLICKED!</b></div>
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As I continued to ponder that I had another phrase come into my mind that really took me by surprise but just made this whole adventure so much better.</div>
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<i><b><span style="font-size: x-large;">"It's all about progression, not perfection"</span></b></i><br />
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You can't lose 50 pounds in a day (no matter how desperately I wish that wasn't true), you can't even lose 10 pounds in a day! Just as you cannot become perfect in a day. We are creatures of habit and we have to change ourselves to become like God, little by little, day by day. He has given us so many tools that we can use to change ourselves. This post is really to focus on those tools,</div>
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and how they help us more effectivly apply the atonement into our lives </div>
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and make changes that help us reach our Divine Potential.<br />
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<b><u><span style="font-size: x-large;">1. Eating Healthy</span></u></b></div>
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Everyone knows that the most important thing to do when trying to </div>
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lose weight is to eat healthy. Doesn't matter if you work out for three hours</div>
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every day if you are still eating Twinkies and fried chicken. Similarly, we need to be aware</div>
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of what we are putting into our <i>spiritual bodies</i>. If we are trying to change ourselves, </div>
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we need to <i><b>feast upon those things that inspire and encourage change</b></i>.</div>
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<b><u>A balanced spiritual meal contains:</u></b></div>
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15-30 minutes of Scripture Study </div>
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Morning and Nightly Prayers </div>
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Weekly Attendance at church meetings<br />
Constant Nourishment of your Testimony </div>
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This is the first step when trying to apply the atonement in our lives. </div>
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Will we be perfect everyday? <i>No.</i></div>
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Will we eat exactly how much we are suppose to?<i> No</i>.</div>
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Will we tend to replace scripture study with our favorite tv show? <i>Sometimes :</i>) </div>
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So what do we do? We <b><i>TRY</i></b>, everyday. We wake up with a new motivation to <i><b>be a little better.</b></i></div>
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<b><u><span style="font-size: x-large;">2. Exercising</span></u></b></div>
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Depending on who you are this is either your worst enemy or your best friend. Some of us would rather run 5 miles than eat our greens. Personally, I would rather drink straight kale and beets than run even 1 mile. BUT, it is sooo important that we MOVE!<br />
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We have to do something! So just as we would in weight loss, we have to exercise our faith, and physically make the changes. we can't just sit back and expect things to change because we want them to. We have to get up, get going, and keep going, every day. Push yourself!<br />
Be a little better EVERY DAY!<br />
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<b><span style="font-size: large;">WARNING:</span></b> You will fail. <b><i>A lot</i></b>. And you will feel at times that you are not worthy of<br />
His Atonement, His Love, His Mercy.<br />
<b>BUT YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY WRONG</b>!<br />
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"However<b> late</b> you <i>think</i> you are, however many <b>chances</b> you <i>think</i> you have<b> missed,</b><br />
however many<b> mistakes</b> you <i>feel</i> you have made or <b>talents</b> you<i> think</i> you don't have,<br />
or however <b>far</b> from <b>home</b> and <b>family</b> and <b>God</b> you <i>feel</i> you have <b>traveled</b>,<br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;">I testify</span> that you have <span style="font-size: large;">NOT</span> traveled <span style="font-size: large;">beyond the reach of divine love.</span></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: large;">It is not possible for you to sink lower than the infinite light of </span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: large;">Christ's Atonement"</span></b></i><br />
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This is the biggest opposition when it comes to accepting and properly using the Atonement.<br />
Satan is real. and the sooner you accept that the sooner you can begin to conquer him.<br />
He would have you believe that you are worthless, you are not worthy, and you cannot succeed.<br />
HE IS WRONG.<br />
YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE.<br />
YOU ARE WORTHY OF 2nd CHANCES.<br />
So please.... start remembering that the Saviors love is enough for you.<br />
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Ok. Soap box rant over. Next Step.</div>
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<b><u><span style="font-size: x-large;">3. The Buddy System</span></u></b><br />
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Everyone knows that if you really want to be successful at losing weight,<br />
or changing any sort of habit, you will be better off if you get a <b>buddy</b>.<br />
Someone to keep you <u>accountable!</u><br />
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In a spiritual aspect, you need to <b><i>rely on the Savior.</i></b><br />
He is your buddy, He is perfect and has overcome <i>every trial</i>,<br />
every addiction, every failure, every weakness that anyone may be facing.<br />
He is the<b> PERFECT BUDDY!</b><br />
He can <b>push</b> you when you want to <b>quit,</b><br />
<b>catch </b>you when you <b>fall</b>,<b> </b><br />
<b>praise</b> you when you<b> succeed</b>.<br />
He is the<i> perfect personal trainer</i> and<br />
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<b><i>willing heart. </i></b><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So basically.... </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">These are just a few ways we can apply the </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">It is through our <b>Faith</b> and our <b>Works</b> that </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">more like our <i>Loving Heavenly Father</i>. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">He wants to see us succeed.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">He waits anxiously with <b>open arms</b>, to see us return to him,</span><br />
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Always remember to feed your spirit through the scritpures<br />
exercise your faith in jesus christ by using the atonement,<br />
and have a buddy system! rely on Him!<br />
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<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">I love my savior, and I am so grateful for </span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">the huge changes he has allowed me to make in my life. </span></b></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-large;">Use the Atonement. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-large;">Apply it in your lives. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-large;">Make Changes. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-large;">Become Better. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-large;">Share the Joy.</span></div>
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<i><b>And Don't Forget to Smile!!!!</b></i><br />
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If you have comments or thoughts sparked from this post, PLEASE share them in the comments, or repost on your social media and tell me what you think.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b><i>#ShareGoodness #JesusChristismysavior </i></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><i><b>Love always,</b></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><b>Sister Turley</b></i></span></div>
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<br />Jessica Mae Turleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06488680008164965310noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-774899061922273607.post-47207108932751207972014-08-30T12:39:00.000-07:002014-09-03T08:46:30.054-07:00Everyone Needs a Superhero<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">I wanted to share my story of a recent trial in my life. <b>This is not a</b></span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">I finally was able to submit my mission papers. The day after that, my</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">So I did. And four<i> slow, long, painful weeks </i>passed, during which I</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">was in the hospital most of the time, and trying to take care of my family</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">as much as I could, trying to be more optimistic than I had ever been </span><br />
<span style="background-color: transparent;">thus far in my life, </span><span style="background-color: transparent;">trying to be brave and strong and supportive. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: transparent;"><b><i><u>The Greatest Mission in the History of Li</u></i></b></span><b style="background-color: transparent;"><i><u>fe!</u></i></b></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">So 28 days later I am on a plane headed to Utah for the Missionary</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">Training Center and I have never felt more sick in my life. <i>Everything</i></span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">inside of me wanted to jump out of that plane, wanted to turn around</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;"><i>and run back into my dad's arms</i>. <b>What was I doing leaving him behind?</b></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">I knew he wouldn't be there when I got back.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">Everyday I waited to hear, every P-day I frantically emailed my</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">mother begging for an update. I would try and chat with my dad but he</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">Week 6 in the MTC I finally got the first phone call informing me that</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">dad was being moved back home, there was nothing more to do, the chemo</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">didn't work. I tried to put on a brave face for everyone, I didn't</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">want to be this basket case, I didn't want anyone to know, but when I</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;"> I yelled, screamed, cried, kicked,</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;"><span style="color: #222222; font-size: x-small;">punch my bed a few times, <i>used an entire tissue box, I kid you not.</i> How</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">could He do this? How could He take my superhero away from me? The one</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">person who had never failed me, who had never stopped supporting me,</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">who had never given up on me, how could He take him from me? From my</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">everything for God and what does He do in return? He shatters my</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">A week later I was sitting in class and over the intercom I hear them</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">ask for me. Sister Phillips grabbed my hand and we walked up to the</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">remember, my legs were like jello, my head was throbbing, heart</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">I smiled at Sister Phillips, made some stupid corny joke. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">passed away on February 12th 2014. <b>That day my life changed forever.</b></span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">through anything, completely changed. My understanding of the Plan of Salvation</span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-size: 13px;">Christ did EVERYTHING for us, suffered through the most extreme pain, </span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: inherit; font-size: 13px;">so that we can be happy. Why? Because He is our savior, redeemer, SUPERHERO and friend.</span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: inherit; font-size: 13px;"> He is our eldest Brother who chose to come and save us all, because He loves us. </span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: inherit; font-size: 13px;">It is that simple. </span><br />
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<i><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">I wish I could describe the overwhelming peace that came from knowing</span></span></i></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">The Plan of Salvation is real. And it is crucial to our personal</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">salvation that we study and understand it. There is life after this.</span></span></div>
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<i><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">The atonement covers all pains, all trials, all weaknesses. His love</span></span></i></div>
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<i><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">is infinite and boundless. There is nothing that he cannot help us</span></span></i></div>
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<b><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">If you don't know what the Plan of Salvation is, if you don't</span></span></b></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">this please comment or email me. There is strength beyond compare when</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent;">you can rely whole heartedly on the savior of the world, who over came</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 13px;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">This trial has changed my life and the lives of my family because of</span></span></div>
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</span>Jessica Mae Turleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06488680008164965310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-774899061922273607.post-8499247461948042632014-08-13T11:58:00.001-07:002014-08-13T12:04:27.991-07:00I am a Child of God<br />
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My thoughts this week have been focused on how His love allows us to reach heights we never could on our own. There have been many moments this week where I have felt that He is simply <i>asking too much of me</i>,</div>
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<b>There is no way I could go through with the task at hand</b>. I just am not strong enough. And I am 100% right about that. I am not strong enough on my own. But as I have taken the time to turn to Him and allow Him to lift me up, I have been humbled and much more aware of what is truly possible with His hand.</div>
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As I took this silly picture below, I began to ponder it and I was shocked to find a lot of sadness in it. I was excited to take it and then I analyzed it a little bit more... There is so much emptiness in this picture. It is me. <b>Alone</b>. Being as strong as I can. <b>Doing it alone</b>. As I thought about this a little more I was taken back to that original thought. <i>I cannot do this on my own</i>. <b>I need His help</b>. I need to submit my will to His and become more like the children I cherish so very much in my life. </div>
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Children are so gentle, so easy to love even when they make mistakes. They are humble and realize that they cannot do anything without the help or supervision of an adult, of someone who has "been there and done that." They enjoy the simple things in life and they get over things quickly! <b>(usually)</b>. This moment at the temple captured my heart. I was so impressed with how much <b><i>pure joy</i></b> was radiating from her face. Bliss in a loving moment.<i> How I so wish I could be more like that. </i></div>
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Just I love the little children I am so blessed to be around, our Heavenly Father and our savior, Jesus Christ, love us just the same. They were willing to provide the atonement and go through anything so that we could return to live with them again. They are always there, with outstretched arms, waiting for us to humble ourselves enough to reach out as well. </div>
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<b>If you don't know this truth for yourself I plead with you to find it.</b><i> <b><u>Pray. Read from the scriptures</u></b>. </i><b>Look for the blessings and the examples of love in your life. </b></div>
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<br />Jessica Mae Turleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06488680008164965310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-774899061922273607.post-24072488770584839772014-07-22T12:49:00.000-07:002014-07-22T12:49:01.332-07:00There is Sunshine In My Soul Today!Well it has been quite some time since I have updated this at all. But I have been prompted to start posting again so here goes nothing :)<br />
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<i>Life is hard</i>.... surprised? Well you shouldn't be. If you stop and look around you for just one second you could find 15 people and see their challenges written straight across their forehead. And then if you look a little closer you would see some broken hearts and lost souls... but look again, for just a few more seconds.... and notice the spirit inside of that person. Recognize their eternal worth. <i>See the spirit son or daughter they are and see what God sees in them. </i><br />
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Often times I am dumbfounded at how much God truly loves His children. I just can't fathom it. Especially when I get so irritated or annoyed with people!<b> How on earth does He put up with all of them</b>?? Because He loves them, unconditionally. Then on the other hand, I can see His love for others perfectly yet I can't imagine how He could possibly love me, someone so imperfect and strewn with flaws and mistakes. But in my heart I know, He loves me. No matter what. His love is <b><i>ALWAYS</i></b> there.<br />
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Think about the sun, (<i>yes yes I know, cheesy analogy, you have heard it already... just keep reading:</i>)<br />
Does the sun choose to shine only on people with blonde hair, or does it shine on the gingers too?<br />
Does the sun hide itself when we make stupid choices or does it just keep spreading it's beautiful rays?<br />
What about when WE run away from the sun? When we hide ourselves inside our room with no windows?<br />
God's love is exactly like the sun. It is always there, no matter what we do, say, think, believe. <b>God loves all of His children, equally, whether or not we deserve it. It is there.</b><br />
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So when we begin to feel like God couldn't possibly love us we<b> MUST</b> remember that is an <b>ABSOLUTE LIE!!!!</b> There is nothing that one of His children could ever do to be outside of His loving reach, so long as we are willing to repent and apply the atonement into our lives.<br />
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I know that our Heavenly Father loves us more than we can possibly comprehend. He loves us so much that He was willing to let His only begotten son suffer all manner of afflictions, so that we might return and live with Him again. He wants<b><u> EVERY SINGLE CHILD</u></b> back in His arms.<br />
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I cannot even imagine my own father not wanting all of my brothers and sisters back. He would never say "<i>I don't care if Jessie doesn't come home, so long as Eric and Jacob make it back ok!</i>" <b>NO! HE WOULD NEVER SAY THAT</b>! (<i>Because we all know I am my father's favorite child, haha :</i>) But really, my dad wouldn't say that and neither would our Heavenly Father.<br />
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<b><i><u>So, my challenge to you all, whoever you are;</u></i></b><br />
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<i> If you are struggling to feel God's precious love for you,</i> get out of your windowless room and go enjoy the sunshine. Take a walk down the street and literally smell some flowers (or a cactus) on the side of the road. Count all of the amazing blessings He has given you. Sit outside and time yourself, for just 10 minutes, write down every single blessing you can think of. If you are still not feeling His love by that point, then get on your knees and pray. Ask Him to make His love known to you.<br />
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<i>If you are struggling (like I often do) to see God's love for OTHER people</i>, then I have a different challenge for you :) <b>Smile more.</b> <b>Smile at every person you see.</b> <b><i>Pray</i></b> every day for an opportunity to serve. If it is your spouse, your child, your neighbor, your companion, your co-worker, your sibling, the man that cut you off on your way to work or the person who threw a hamburger at you while you were tracting... take a minute and list their good qualities, think of their eternal potential.<b> Write it down.</b> Really let God show you His love for His children. And then anytime you begin to have negative feelings towards that person, pull out your list, or write a new one.<br />
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<b><i><u>He loves you</u></i></b>. Don't forget it. And He loves that annoying coworker, and the wreckless driver.<br />
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Anyway, as I have been going through trial after trial, setback after setback, I have had a lot of time to ponder the question, "Why do you want to serve a mission?". It has become a source of great strength and patience in my life, especially in this last month when I have questioned time and time again, why on earth am I putting myself through this torture, this waiting game?? In the past I would have answered this question with; "Because the mission is an amazing thing" or "Because I know that Heavenly Father wants me to" or "Because I love missionary work". All of which are great answers... but recently, I think I found the BEST answer for myself that I could come up with.<br />
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I want to serve a mission because I have a responsibility to take this gospel to those who don't have it. I have been blessed beyond compare because of the Atonement in my life and I know that Heavenly Father loves ALL of His children, and needs ME to go get them and show them the way back.<br />
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I want to serve a mission because I love God, I love His gospel, I love His work, and just as Christ did, I promised once before to come to Earth and do His work, not my own.<br />
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<i><b>"We came into the world for a great purpose, the same as Jesus, our elder brother, to do the will and works of our Father; in this there is peace, joy and happiness, an increase of wisdom, knowledge and the power of God; outside of this are no promised blessings. Thus let us devote ourselves to righteousness, help each and all to be better and happier; do good to all and evil to none; honor God and obey His Priesthood; cultivate and preserve an enlightened conscience and follow the Holy Spirit..." - Teachings of Lorenzo Snow</b></i><br />
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The great thing about this is that it doesn't talk specifically about Missionary Work. If the only thing that qualified as doing God's will was serving a mission then there would be a lot of disobedient people in the world. There are so many ways that we can go about doing God's will and each and every one of us has our own way, a specific purpose that He needs us to fulfill. So don't feel bad when you feel like a mission isn't for you. It's not for everyone. But God's will is. It always will be.<br />
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I personally am so overcome with joy when I think about being on a mission. I have been given so many wonderful blessings, so many opportunities to bless the lives of others by working with our Heavenly Father.<br />
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A great friend of mine told me that while on his mission he was instructed to write a letter to himself, a future self kind of letter, telling about all he had accomplished and become. He told me I should do the same. and so I did. This is basically the listed version of that. The letter is pretty personal so this is something I can post and see and help me kind of look at it like a characteristic check list :) </div>
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Jessica Mae Turleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06488680008164965310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-774899061922273607.post-67377160513777210952013-10-01T23:18:00.001-07:002013-10-01T23:18:44.617-07:00The Waiting GameSo I decided to be done writing post specifically about Washington and will try to integrate all my adventures into my stories of today :) But before I really get writing I just have to get this out of my system....<br />
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Gah I am going insane. I had my Stake President interview tonight and I really enjoyed that. We talked for about an hour about this and that and it was just really good :) I was so giddy, he kept laughing at me because I couldn't stop smiling. Can you blame me?? I have been waiting for this for almost 4 years now!!!<br />
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Anywho :) So Yes, the waiting game has begun. I don't know how on earth I am going to keep myself occupied. Thank goodness my BFF and I are going to drive up to Provo this weekend for conference. Someone to keep my mind busy for a few days. Also, I made the goal to read the entire Book of Mormon+JSH before my call comes. It's about 40 pages per day if my call comes in 2 weeks. Quite the task but it should keep me distracted for a few hours every day.<br />
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I got 7 emails on monday from some of my missionaries. (I call them MY missionaries simply because they are all super close friends of mine and I write them. No more than that, so don't get any ideas). It was such a great Missionary Monday. I cannot wait to be on the other end, writing about all of my Missionary Adventures. ALSO, my Best Friend in the entire world comes home in 1 WEEK!!!! How crazy is that??? I am so excited :) I can't believe I will only be getting one more email from him! (If that!) It has been a crazy awesome two years :) And now it's MY turn!! We will see if any of them are half as good at writing me as I was at writing them! Probably won't be but oh well :)<br />
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Sorry this post seems so scatter brained. I cannot think about anything else except the mission call and the missionary coming home. It's going to be such an intense few weeks!!!!<br />
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Until next time!! - Jessie Mae <3Jessica Mae Turleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06488680008164965310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-774899061922273607.post-37005129755428067102013-09-29T00:24:00.001-07:002013-09-29T00:24:44.244-07:00The 11 Month Journey - Part 2**Pre-Post Rant** So I am getting really anxious to be writing about current life. I don't know how many more posts I will really do about Washington even though there are so many amazing things that I experienced and I want to share everything!!! But There is at least THIS post. We will see how far I get :)<br />
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OK: So I started attending the Olympia YSA Branch and immediately I was put to work. **Back Story: I took ASL (American Sign Language) all through High School and even some in College** The first thing I noticed during Sacrament Meeting was the cute little blond girl at the front of the chapel, signing to a guy in the front row. I was sooo excited!!!! I have such a great passion for Sign Language but I really never get to use it. I introduced myself to them after and they had me interpret during Sunday School. MOST HUMBLING MOMENT EVER. I was terrified and so overwhelmed. They don't teach you religious signs in school so i was stumbling over every word. But they were so gracious and so loving and so excited to accept me and teach me. Over the next few weeks I began to make some great friends and I was called to serve in the Relief Society Presidency as the 1st Counselor. That was so humbling and also such a great experience. I was able to serve in a capacity I had never experienced before. I remember being so overwhelmed and so thrown off because I had a responsibility to LOVE these sisters... but I didn't know any of them!!I remember so many moments sitting in Presidency meetings, talking about Sisters we were concerned about, or needed to give an assignment to, or ones we were going to visit and I wouldn't know who they were and I would be so frustrated with myself for not knowing them. And then one day, there was a new sister in our ward that I had kicked it off with and she was brought up in a meeting and I knew who she was, and got to fill everyone in on her and no one else knew her. I was so excited and immediately this love that I was suppose to inherently have just landed on me. The best thing was that I not only felt all of this love that <i style="font-weight: bold;">I </i>had for these Sisters, but I saw who <i style="font-weight: bold;">Heavenly Father </i>knew them to be and felt how much He loved them, individually. Through that I understood better who He needed me to be for them and how I was able to use my gifts and talents to care for them in this stewardship and responsibility I had for them.<br />
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Anywho. So life continued, I was taking the temple prep class, studying, doing the little i could to prepare myself for the mission that seemed so far away. But the real preparation came through living my life every day. I was working for so many families and they were all so very different. I had such a rare experience that really touched my heart. I had received a call from a mother who needed an occasional sitter. So the first time I went over to her house to meet her and sit for her, she had a Doctors appointment because she was pregnant. She came home that afternoon in tears and immediately I knew what had happened. I almost started crying. All I could think to do was give her a hug, but I had just met this woman four hours ago and she wasn't a part of this culture that we have in the church, hugs were a bit crossing the line. So i stood there, awkward as all get out, and offered my sympathies and told her that I am here for her whenever she needed me. And we became so close and invested in each others' lives. This one unfortunate moment had made us great friends. After a while she became pregnant again there was one day she was having some pains and she had asked me to come babysit so she could go to the doctors but i was working. So we texted for a little bit and I had this unique opportunity to bare my testimony about faith and trusting in the Lord and his timing and his Plan. She was so scared (I can't even imagine) and I knew that whatever I had to say wouldn't be enough. it had to be words from our Heavenly Father, she had to know that things were going to be ok no matter what was going on. So I testified. and she responded so graciously and so lovingly. That was a moment that I realized why we are asked to serve missions. People need the gospel in their lives. They need faith. they need to know that there is a plan and a purpose to everything.<br />
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So many of these moments presented themselves to me. I was not working for a single LDS family. But they were all so accepting of me and so curious and we could talk so openly. It was great! I also go to hear some of the crazy misconceptions and myths that people have about us.<br />
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There was a time, after I had been going to the temple so often, that I became very annoyed with doing Baptisms. I was sick of being this 20 year old, "so mature and wise" (I can see my dad rolling his eyes now), stuck in a room of obnoxious, irreverent, and immature 13 year olds. I wanted to go and feel the spirit, I wanted to be uplifted, I wanted to have great spiritual moments, but they were continuously interrupted by giggling, and talk of this crush and that gossip. I was also frustrated that I was stuck doing such a trivial task. I had been doing Baptisms for 8 years! hadn't I learned enough yet? One particular visit I was feeling very frustrated by all of this. There was a large group of youth there being very irreverent and I just wanted some peace and quiet. I looked over at a girl next to me, not a part of of the group, reading the scriptures. At that moment I felt a big honkin' baseball bat hit me upside the head and say "Hey, you with the big head and prideful heart, stop being such a brat and learn something". So I did just that. I said a quick prayer, asking for some major forgiveness and for a spirit of learning and peace. I got up, grabbed a set of scriptures, and started reading everything I could about Baptism. I was so surprised by how much I learned in that 15 minutes of study. especially about an ordinance that I have been engaging in since I was 8 years old. I became so excited for this work that I was doing and so grateful for those obnoxious 13 year old who were choosing to be in such a holy place when so many of their peers weren't. I was overcome with love and understanding. I also got the biggest piece of Humble Pie I have ever had to eat. I realized that this was another teaching moment about the mission for me. A big part of my purpose was to bring people to be baptized, to take that first step in living the gospel. how on earth was I suppose to preach about the importance of baptism if I was annoyed by participating in it myself? Glad that Heavenly Father had my back on that one. :)<br />
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<br />Jessica Mae Turleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06488680008164965310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-774899061922273607.post-29040977385379094092013-09-26T21:56:00.002-07:002013-09-26T21:56:31.770-07:00The 11 Month Journey - Part 1So I moved up to Washington and less than a week after moving in and settling in I had job interviews left and right. My plan was to Nanny for the little bit I was there and save up for the mission. I went to my first one, interviewing with the Nixon family. I met them and was honestly overwhelmed. I had never been in such a structured home before. But I was very confident in my ability to be their Nanny so I jumped in feet first. I met Wendy, the mother, and I felt we had hit it off. I felt so comfortable with her and I just wanted to be there with her and the kids. She asked me how long I would be staying in Washington and I paused. I wanted and needed this job so badly. I stupidly told her that I was pretty flexible, that ideally I would only be here until June, when my Brother-in-law was expected back, but I could extend it as long as she needed me. She then asked me to come back next week so she could observe me some more with the kids. As the next week passed by and I was meeting all sorts of new families, what I had told Wendy about my time frame had haunted me.<br />
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Of course I didn't want to be here for any longer than I needed to. I wanted to go on a mission. I wanted to get back home. I didn't know anyone here, I didn't belong here. I had gone to a YSA ward that Sunday and not a single person said a word to me. Now, I don't entirely blame them. I am actually quite shy when I don't know anyone. I came in late because I was lost, and then it took me about ten minutes to figure out that they don't start with Sacrament Meeting, they end with it so I was walking around aimlessly searching for a gospel doctrine class. When i finally found it I slipped in the back and sat alone. Didn't make any comments (if you know me at all, it is very rare that I won't make ANY comments during a class) and didn't introduce myself in the next class either. I have never felt so out of place in my life. And I couldn't figure out why. All of this excitement to meet new people and start a new life for myself but I was feeling so alone and unmotivated. I was also bogged down with what I had told Wendy. I knew I had to tell her what my real plan was but I so desperately needed a job. I prayed long and hard that Sunday. For peace, and mostly courage to be able to confront her and be honest about my intentions.<br />
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That week when I went to interview again with Wendy, the topic my time came up. I had knots in my stomach but I told her straight up, I need to go on a mission, so I am planning on leaving as soon as I can. She then realized that I wouldn't be a fit and we said our goodbyes. It was hard, I was really hoping that by telling her the truth, she would be ok with it somehow and make it work. But I knew I had done the right thing and I had many other families interested in hiring me.<br />
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The next night I get an email, around 11:00 PM, from Wendy. She says that she hasn't been able to stop thinking about me and that she really wants me to work for her. We emailed back and forth for a little bit, and then she asked if I could commit to One year, or at least through the summer. I thought about it and realized that wouldn't be horrible so I said yes. And she offered me the job right there, in the middle of the night, over email. I accepted and started training with their Nanny that week.<br />
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Now I won't say much about the job because it's not what this blog is for. But I grew to love those boys so much, and also be irritated beyond belief with them. However, it was one of the hardest things to do, leaving those boys behind to come back to Arizona. I think about them every day, all these simple little things remind me of them. That was one of the hardest, most challenging and humbling jobs I have ever had.<br />
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After attending the YSA ward two more times, someone finally talked to me and she pointed out that there was a branch much closer to me. So she gave me some more information and then after that I began attending the Olympia YSA Branch.<br />
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I have never fit anywhere as well as I did in that branch. It was the most welcoming environment I have experienced and I will always treasure my time there. It was now about November and everything was starting to fall into place. Maybe, just maybe, things were going to work out :)Jessica Mae Turleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06488680008164965310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-774899061922273607.post-20305306374822181842013-09-26T15:05:00.002-07:002013-09-26T15:05:37.754-07:00The Delay<blockquote class="tr_bq">
So there was a lot of waiting involved in me starting my papers.I have known that I wanted to go on a mission since I was about 17 and although I have questioned it a billion times in between then and now, I really do have a strong conviction to be going out and preaching the gospel. About a year and a half ago, when I was 19, I had the opportunity to move to Washington State to live with my sister while her husband was deployed. I was very thrilled about this new adventure that would bring me to a place I had never been before and show me a whole different kind of life. The plan was to make the 23 hour drive over about a week of time, surrounding General Conference weekend in October of 2012. So we started out and we stopped in Provo, Utah at one point to visit two of my sisters and their families. Sunday morning we were heading after a nice few days visit with them. As we are saying our goodbyes and I am kissing and loving on my little nephews my phone starts blowing up with text messages and phone calls. I look through the dozens of text messages I have and they all say things like "Come home!!!! You can go on your mission!!!" or "You don't need to move to Washington come back!". The best one was "Did you just hear that????" I got about ten of those. Of course I hadn't "just heard that" because we weren't watching conference (something I now wish I hadn't done). So a midst reading all of these texts, I get a phone call from my brother and all he says is, "so what are you going to do?" assuming I knew what in the world was going on. After I explain to him that I have no idea what anyone is talking about he fills me in the announcement that President Monson gave to lower the age requirements for missionaries. I was ASTONISHED. and also a little perturbed that it hadn't come 6 months earlier before this plan to move to Washington had even come about. I could feel every one's eyes on me, waiting for me to say "Let's go home, I am going on a mission!", but I couldn't. I really really really wanted to. But I had prayed so long and hard about this decision to move and I knew that I was doing the right thing. My sister needed me, and, although I didn't know it yet, I desperately needed the experiences that I was going to have over the next 11 months. So I let out a sigh and said, "Well it's too late to turn back now, let's go before I change my mind!" So I loaded up in my car, my parents in theirs, and we drove. I will be honest, I cried a little as I turned on the radio and listened to the rest of conference. I was so sad to not be joining the thousands of Sister Missionaries, but I wouldn't trade ANYTHING for next 11 months of my life. </blockquote>
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